Two weeks ago I started a new class at home and already I am getting the most amazing results with the group. They are all ages, the youngest is a lovely 18 year old who comes with her mother, then I could virtually get a small soiree going with a singer, a designer and a dancer amongst others.
They resembled rabbits in head lights when they first arrived, and clearly had no idea what to expect. Yet, within the space of two weeks they've already made such huge changes. Last week, I taught them how to do a simple meditation and connect with their higher selves. A week later, and the one thing that seems to have changed more dramatically than any other, is their inner strength. Er, not sure I'm popular with a few husbands now though!
By giving people a route to their inner strength, the impossible can become possible. There are too many people out there who doubt themselves. If believing in the afterlife is not your thing - that's your choice, although having a faith of any kind is healing, but, believing in your-self is essential.
We allow others to take away our ability to survive, and be truly happy. We choose to let people destroy us, or make us miserable. Too often, I see clients who feel helpless because they feel trapped by bullying partners, family and work associates. We all know that a bully is someone who is insecure and will comfort themselves in taking it out on others.
The Law of Reflection, is there to remind us, that what ever someone says about you or to you, is a reminder of what they actually think of themselves. It's so easy to attack someone who is close to us or means something to us, calling someone a liar or useless, calling someone manipulative or evil. Ask yourself, what is manipulative or bad about them? What are they lying about, or are they just lying to themselves?
We all know people in denial or on some kind of self destruction route. Personally, I seem to be surrounded by one extreme or the other, incredibly kind and helpful people or the emotional vampires.
If you can change one person's life for the better, that's amazing - the feeling is better than anything. Too many good people are going through a tough time, but nothing stays the same for ever.
The Hermetics believed that life was like a pendulum, we stay in exactly the same spot and what might seem awful can swing to wonderful, and of course the opposite. It's up to our choices and our beliefs. Just by changing the way you look at a situation to another perspective, can change your feelings. If for example, you feel someone has hurt you, ask yourself was that their intention?
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