Monday 31 December 2007

New Year, New Us.

It's 4.30am on the 1st January 2008, and I know I am not alone in being thrilled to see the back of 2007. At the stroke of midnight I felt as if the world had been lifted off my shoulders. One friend whispered in my ear "you deserve a better year, this year Lizzie, and I hope you find your happiness!" I have heard a version of that comment from lot's of close friends over the last few weeks, it has helped me to realise how lucky I am to have people who care about me, in my life.

Apparently, 2007 was a bad year because the 2 and 7 make 9 and that's all to do with endings, where as now in 2008 we are back to a 1 which is new beginnings. Thank God!

Right up until the midnight chimes, for me, things have been turbulent this year. One of my New Year's Resolutions is to only take with me, from last year, my wiser- self. I finally mentally excluded one person today, promising myself and my friends that this person's name would never ever be uttered again. When we waste energy on people who don't deserve it, we are loosing our power to make both people we love and ourselves happy. It's so tough to let go when we have been wronged, but karma can only begin to take place when we do. So, to that person - R.I.P.

Welcome 2008! Am I glad to see you, I know this is going to be a good one for me, my family and all those who deserve it. This is the beginning of the journey now for those who want enlightenment. And for those who don't - good luck!

Need to go to sleep now - got a busy year ahead!

Wednesday 19 December 2007

More ghostly experiences.........

I wish I could write these blogs every day, maybe that should be my New Year's resolution.

I have such a good feeling about 2008, for me, it feels like the countdown to 2012. The next four years will be so fascinating to watch unfold. I feel, that the last few years have all been about learning and questions. The eternal "why am here?", "what is my purpose here?", "why do these things, good or bad, happen to me?"

Now, it's like being on Spiritual Facebook! Everyday, I either connect, or reconnect with like-minded people, and those who in the past were responsible, and those who could possibly send me hurtling down the pain path seem to be becoming less and significant in my mind. Actually, come to think of it, I am totally responsible for allowing them to send me off into emotional destruction, it's just that my wall between them and me seems thicker, tougher.

Last Thursday night, I gave a talk at the Scole Inn at Diss. Sixty turned up and there was even a waiting list! I won't pretend I was nervous, but before the bit where I addressed lots of unfamiliar faces, I made a point of welcoming and shaking as many people's hands a possible. It helped me to get to know them a bit better, a smile breaks down a thousand barriers.

I started my speech, and before I knew it I had spoken for over an hour! We stopped for supper, then it was down to business! I sent my guests on ghost hunt around the hotel and we ended up in a large function room. I decided to try to get something moving so we laid our hands gently on a large table. As our palms rested the table started to creak, and then we felt a vibration, as if a train was underneath it! Sadly, because there were so many people coming and going in the room, we kept losing our energy. However, one girl took a number of photo's and orbs* appeared in each shot. The most amazing picture quite clearly showed a face on the table, a man with a beard and long face.

Back in front of the bar's roaring fire at 2am, those left, brought pictures of more light anomalies in various rooms. Some people were very scared and others amazed, including an amazing young man aged 16, was very psychic. He was so inspiring and he knew that, whether he liked it or not, he had found his vocation. I suggested, that it was wonderful that he had the opportunity to tap into his fellow teenagers. He could show them that there was more to life than drugs and alcohol. I hope to do some work with him in the New Year.

The following night, exhausted, I fell asleep at 5.30pm and during the night I had the most extraordinary dream. In fact, I am not sure if it was a dream, I felt as if I left my body and floated around the house, I was surrounded by spirits and at one point I saw a child running through the house making lots of noise. I know I shut the doors before I slept yet in the morning they were wide open and there was no other explanation.

* Orbs are a generally form in circles of lights on a photograph though it is also possible to see them on film and some see them with naked eye. They are said to be the first manifestation of a spirit.

Monday 10 December 2007

In with the Faith and out with Fear!

I was reading with my daughter tonight and for some reason, a lovely friend of mine who, I heard was expecting a long awaited and much wanted baby popped into my head. I suddenly saw her holding a baby girl (they didn't know the sex of the baby before the birth),and I just knew that she had arrived. Two hours later, and I just received a text announcing the safe arrival of Poppy.

When you pour your energy into the right things in life, being psychic can you bring you so much happiness. But it is an energy and if we place into the wrong things it can be so destructive both to yourself and to others.

I read for a client recently, who felt bullied by everyone around her, and it was taking over her life. We all have an amazing energy, and if we pour it into negativity its like filling a car with petrol, with a hole in the tank. I have been guilty of the same thing, I have spent hours wondering why certain individuals can use me for friendship and help, only to walk away, and be very nasty once they have no more use for me.

The bottom line is, it doesn't matter. Bullies and are weak and want our energy, don't waste it. It will give them a sense of power and you will feel weaker and weaker.

When you focus your energy to yourself, your life, and those you love, you are back on the right path. Meditation is so helpful for this, either by detaching from bad energy or by bringing positive energy into yourself again.

Find a quiet place and give yourself permission to relax, allow any outside noises to relax you even further, and any thoughts that pop into your head tell them you will deal with them later. Imagine yourself surrounded in white light and breathe positive energy in and exhale the negative. You may see different colours, so if you want to breathe those in too, that's fine. Just try to relax even if it's just for 5 minutes.

If you do this everyday for just a week you will start to notice a sense of calm and inner strength. Start preparing yourself for 2008, Christmas can be so stressful, treat yourself to 5 minutes a day meditation.

You are an amazing and wonderful being, and you deserve to happy.

Sunday 2 December 2007

Your inner strength.

Two weeks ago I started a new class at home and already I am getting the most amazing results with the group. They are all ages, the youngest is a lovely 18 year old who comes with her mother, then I could virtually get a small soiree going with a singer, a designer and a dancer amongst others.

They resembled rabbits in head lights when they first arrived, and clearly had no idea what to expect. Yet, within the space of two weeks they've already made such huge changes. Last week, I taught them how to do a simple meditation and connect with their higher selves. A week later, and the one thing that seems to have changed more dramatically than any other, is their inner strength. Er, not sure I'm popular with a few husbands now though!

By giving people a route to their inner strength, the impossible can become possible. There are too many people out there who doubt themselves. If believing in the afterlife is not your thing - that's your choice, although having a faith of any kind is healing, but, believing in your-self is essential.

We allow others to take away our ability to survive, and be truly happy. We choose to let people destroy us, or make us miserable. Too often, I see clients who feel helpless because they feel trapped by bullying partners, family and work associates. We all know that a bully is someone who is insecure and will comfort themselves in taking it out on others.

The Law of Reflection, is there to remind us, that what ever someone says about you or to you, is a reminder of what they actually think of themselves. It's so easy to attack someone who is close to us or means something to us, calling someone a liar or useless, calling someone manipulative or evil. Ask yourself, what is manipulative or bad about them? What are they lying about, or are they just lying to themselves?

We all know people in denial or on some kind of self destruction route. Personally, I seem to be surrounded by one extreme or the other, incredibly kind and helpful people or the emotional vampires.

If you can change one person's life for the better, that's amazing - the feeling is better than anything. Too many good people are going through a tough time, but nothing stays the same for ever.

The Hermetics believed that life was like a pendulum, we stay in exactly the same spot and what might seem awful can swing to wonderful, and of course the opposite. It's up to our choices and our beliefs. Just by changing the way you look at a situation to another perspective, can change your feelings. If for example, you feel someone has hurt you, ask yourself was that their intention?



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